Does Ignorance
Breed Bullying?
By: Flowering
Spring Tree
October 10, 2013
During
the past couple of weeks, there were certain events that occurred in the life
of my family and myself that caused me to think more deeply about bullying and
how it occurs. While I know that
bullying can be bred in others from their parents, environment, and/or learning
experiences, I found myself thinking even more deeply about whether or not
ignorance can breed bullying. This is
because my son and family experienced some extreme ignorance to certain
seriously sensitive situations recently by many people at a particular
institution. It got me thinking about
the story in the Bible about the rich man who bypassed Lazarus, ignoring him,
overlooking him, not even seeing him.
The man’s wealth caused him to feel superior to Lazarus and become blind
to Lazarus’ poverty. Similarly, my son
and family were treated in a highly ignorant manner that created an extremely
serious situation, again, to which those involved outside of our family were
incredibly ignorant.
Without
saying what the situation was, one can suffice it to say that even when
presented with the facts about the situation and that professionals outside of
the institution confirmed the situation, the officials at the particular
institution remained in denial and in ignorance about it. They remained completely blind to the
existence of a situation that they caused, and not only caused, but the effects
to which they steadfastly remained ignorant.
It, therefore, got me to thinking if this type of ignorance and denial –
even when faced with information that the situation occurred, including
confirmations from outside professionals familiar with the situation – that
this could be bullying.
For
about the past two years, I have researched the effects of bullying. I have read people’s stories on the Internet
about bullying; I have read articles about how bullying led to people
committing suicide; I have read about how so completely destructive people can
be toward each other that it causes those others to kill themselves. So, that leads me to the phrase about the
devil that one cannot see is worse than the one whom a person can see. At least, in the face of bullying by those
who are direct about it and who do not hide it, one can easily observe that
they are bullies. Worse are those
bullies who feign having one’s best interests in mind but who, in fact, are
doing exactly the opposite of that by being resistant to the truth, being in
denial of it, ignoring it, and exacerbating the situation even more by
escalating it.
What
these folks should really be doing is their homework. They ought to try to place themselves in
others’ shoes, especially those of children.
Instead, they continue to be blind even though they have vision. The problem is that they are blind in spirit
even though they can see. Is it about a
culture in which people need to be right and correct all of the time, at
whatever cost, even the cost of another’s life?
People who are blind in spirit and ignorant are bullies because they
always believe they are right and correct.
They believe their way is the better way, the more superior way. They are oblivious to how their way may have
tragic effects on others – I’m talking about it being to the point where their
ignorance causes others to take their own lives.
Denying,
overlooking, and being blind and ignorant to these such serious issues are
inexcusable. They are the work of
bullies. Bullies purposely ignore,
overlook, or deny these types of situations because they believe they are
superior and that their way is the best way.
They are inflexible and not about to change at all, not for one person,
not even if it means saving a life.
People who are ignorant bullies, therefore, do not even see the results
of their ignorance or bullying because they do not see anything wrong with it,
much to the detriment of others who are negatively and even tragically affected
by it.
Therefore,
I believe that people who are purposely ignorant and blind to issues and
situations are bullies because they have had many opportunities to become
enlightened and educated about these things, and they choose not to. They choose to steadfastly hold onto their
ignorance, denial, blindness, rigidity, and inflexibility. They are bullies and they do not even realize
it. Therefore, it is up to others in
society to realize it, and protect themselves from them before it is too late,
and another life is lost due to their bullyish ignorance.
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